Welcome all to my little spot on the internet! It’s been such a long time since I’ve written anything public. I’ve been praying about this blog because I wasn’t sure whether or not the things God has been teaching me are for others or just for myself. However, I’ve been reading “Raising Giant-Killers,” by Bill Johnson, and was reminded of the power of testimonies in showing what a powerful and loving God we serve. Then, I read in Matthew 13:52 how every scribe who has become a disciple in the kingdom of Heaven is like a homeowner who brings from his storeroom new gems of truth as well as old (paraphrased from the AMP and NLT). So, here I am, attempting to share gems of truth.
I was sitting here re-reading some of the blog drafts that have been just sitting out in space, unfinished and/or unseen, by the public eye. Some, I deleted permanently because really they were more related to what was going on in our culture at the time I wrote them (2019-2022), but a few I kept and may update and share with you soon.
So, what’s going on with me now? I’m still a homeschooling stay-at-home mom of three, married to my hubby of almost 8 years. I’m finally coming out of the fog that is the fourth trimester, now that my last child is almost three (yes, it took that long), and I’m finding that I have a little more free time and energy on my hands, although, life is still very busy.
This past January, when everyone was thinking about their goals for the new year, I started a 21-day fast with my church, not really going into it with anything in particular that I wanted to pray about. The last few years, I’ve felt especially “stuck” in my role as mother and wife and in the ministries I’ve been involved with–and/or wanted to be involved with–my last post, titled Tomatoes, touched on this. I was tired of getting my hopes up, setting goals, praying about the same things repeatedly, and never seeing them come to fruition. But I fasted, and I prayed anyway. Even when it was hard. Even when I had no idea why it was hard.
I finally realized I was kind of angry and disappointed because things hadn’t changed over the last few years. I thought things would get easier as my children got older, I thought I’d be able to do more of the things I wanted to do or that I’d felt called to do; and I wanted to do more for the kingdom. So I laid this at God’s feet, and I asked Him to change my heart. I told Him, His Word says His burden is light, and His yolk is easy, but this life He’d given felt so burdensome (Matthew 11:28-30). This is me being real and vulnerable with you. Motherhood is incredibly hard for me. I know I’m not the only one who has felt this way. This is why I’m sharing. Motherhood is lonely, exhausting, repetitive, and unappreciated work. I love my children so much, but that doesn’t change how hard the role is.
To continue, during my Bible time, I read Jeremiah 29, and verses 4-7 jumped out at me. This is where God told Jeremiah to tell the Israelites that while they were in Babylonian captivity (for their sin), they were to be fruitful and to pray for the cities God had sent them to. Essentially, He told them to bloom where they were planted. Then I thought about how God’s called me to my home and given me my children and husband, and I was focusing on all the wrong things. I want to do important things for God, but this is where He has me. It’s like in Matthew 25, when the master gives the servant money and tells him to invest it, but instead, he buries it. In focusing on how hard motherhood is, instead of how my God supplies me with everything I need, and uses motherhood to sanctify me and pour into my family, I wasn’t growing the gifts He’d given me. I wasn’t being faithful in the little things. I was thinking that I needed to go outside my home to do (additional) kingdom work, but He reminded me I can be on my knees in prayer for those doing the work that I can’t do in this season; and prayer is kingdom work!
Lastly, and more importantly, I was so focused on doing something important for the kingdom that I took my eyes off of the King. The King is sovereign, and He knows what He’s doing, and He does that which brings Him glory and establishes His kingdom, in His own time and in His own way; and He deserves my complete trust. After I lay all this down, God gave my pastor a message on surrender, and I knew I was on the right track because the Holy Spirit confirms what He’s revealing.
Well, this past Wednesday as we sang “The Goodness of God,” and we got to the verse that says “Your goodness is running after me,” I pictured my three children literally running after me, and I knew that God had done something transformative in my heart that I could never do on my own. We serve such a big and perfect God, with His own big and perfect plans. Those plans often look so much different than what we want or expect, but He’s always working in us, through us and around us. We just have to keep our eyes on Him no matter what, and never stop seeking Him, even when it’s hard.